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Finding Calm in the Chaos: Simple Ways to Practice Mindfulness Every Day

  • Jan 23
  • 4 min read
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Mindfulness: Finding Calm in the Chaos


I have been on a journey of self-discovery lately. Walking through some darker seasons has pushed me to slow down, reflect, and be really honest with myself about habits and thought patterns that weren’t serving my mental health. In that process, I turned to meditation and mindfulness as a way to ease anxiety and feel more grounded day to day.


Mindfulness seems so simple in theory. The ability to be fully present in the moment you’re in. But in practice, it can feel surprisingly difficult. We’re so easily distracted by everything going on in the world around us that we often lose sight of what is happening right in front of us. Our minds jump ahead, replay the past, or spiral into worry before we even realize it. I know for me, one anxious thought can quickly snowball into a whole list of things I can’t control.


It might seem hard at first, but there’s good news.  Mindfulness doesn’t require hours of meditation or a complete lifestyle overhaul. It’s a skill anyone can build, and it starts with small, intentional habits woven into everyday life. Research consistently shows that practicing mindfulness can positively impact our mental and physical health, relationships, focus at work, and overall sense of well‑being.


Today, I’m sharing five simple mindfulness practices I’ve incorporated into my daily routine. These small shifts have made a big difference in how I feel. Not only have I noticed changes with my mental health but my physical health as well. Now I truly feel more present, more energized, and more connected to myself throughout the day.


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TIPS

  • Start small. Performing an activity with mindfulness means to perform that activity with complete awareness. Choose one activity a day that you will perform with mindfulness and grow from there. Begin with an activity that you already perform daily. This could be showering, eating, walking, or even brushing your teeth. Once it feels natural, add another.

  • Aim for consistency, not perfection. Mindfulness works best when practiced regularly. Try to anchor it to a consistent time of day, such as first thing in the morning or before bed. Even a few minutes counts.

  • Remove pressure. Mindfulness isn’t about clearing your mind or doing it “right.” It’s about noticing what’s happening, thoughts included, without judgment.

  • Remember the benefits are wide‑ranging. Mindfulness supports emotional regulation, mental clarity, stronger relationships, improved work performance, and practical stress management.

  • Be patient with yourself. Like any habit, mindfulness takes time. Wandering thoughts are part of the process, not a failure.

 

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EXERCISES

  • Body Scan

    • The purpose of body scan is to really get tuned into your body and to reconnect with your physical self. The goal is to train the mind to be more aware of sensory experiences. Often we don’t realize physical discomfort – headaches, neck and shoulder pain, etc. is tied to our emotional state. By mentally scanning ourselves we are becoming more aware of every part of our body and our discomforts.

    • Set aside 30 minutes in a quiet space to really get in tune with your body. Starting at your feet, slowly move your attention upward, noticing sensations in each part of your body without trying to change them. The goal is awareness, not relaxation, though relaxation often follows.


  • Deep Breathing

    • Find a quiet place to sit comfortably. Inhale deeply through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth. Let your breath act as an anchor. When your mind wanders (and it will), gently guide it back to your breathing.

    • Start with just 2–3 minutes a day. Over time, this practice can help regulate your nervous system and bring you back into the present moment during stressful situations.


  • Meditation

    • The benefits of meditation have long been talked about by industry professionals. It can provide some much needed space in our ever present brain chatter. It is similar to the deep breathing exercise but is done for longer periods of time and allows more space for the wandering mind. Meditation may involve guided audio, a mantra, or silent awareness.

    • I personally meditate each morning, even if it’s just for five minutes, and it sets a calmer tone for the rest of my day. Beginners can start with guided meditations to make the practice feel more approachable.


  • Mindful Stretching

    • Mindfulness doesn’t have to be still. Gentle yoga, stretching, or even a slow walk can become a mindfulness practice when paired with intentional breathing and body awareness.

    • I love doing 10–15 minutes of yoga before bed. It helps me unwind, sleep better, and wake up feeling more refreshed.


  • Using a metacognitive strategy in situations

    • This practice helps create mental space during emotionally charged situations.

      • Step back mentally from the situation

      • Observe what’s happening internally and externally

      • Notice thoughts and emotions without evaluating or reacting

    • This pause can make a big difference in how you respond rather than react.

 

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RESOURCES



APPS

  • Calm - Guided meditations, sleep stories, and breathing exercises

  • Headspace - Beginner‑friendly lessons and short daily practices

  • Happier Meditation - Free meditations with a wide range of teachers

  • Insight Timer - Focuses on emotional awareness and compassion


 

QUICK TOOLS & TIPS TO HELP YOU PRACTICE MINDFULNESS

  • Practicing Mindfulness at Work

  • Acknowledge your feelings instead of pushing them away

  • Practice mindful listening. Focus fully on the person speaking

  • Avoid labeling thoughts or emotions as “good” or “bad”

  • Use breathing exercises before stressful moments or decisions

  • Avoid judgement

  • Implement short mindfulness check‑ins throughout your day



Mindfulness isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about meeting yourself where you are, with a little more patience and compassion.


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Hi, I'm Becca!

Born & raised in LA, currently living in Charlotte, NC with my husband Matt, our son August and our pup Pennylane. Lover of good food, travel, the great outdoors, and spending time with my loved ones. 

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